How a missionary’s legacy and a life motto taught me to pursue purpose with courage and joy.

The Day Those Words Hit Me

Some quotes hit you like a soft breeze; others hit you like a freight train. For me, it was a combination of two. The first: “I’m not dead, I’m not done,” often attributed to Bob Pierce, founder of World Vision and Samaritan’s Purse. The second: “No reserves, No Retreat, No Regrets,” the words of William Borden, a young missionary who gave up unimaginable wealth to serve God—and never made it to the mission field because of an early death at age 25.

A long-time friend of mine reminded me of this motto during a recent conversation. We were swapping stories about life, the ups and downs, and what it means to finish well. He said, “Jim, you’re not dead, and you’re certainly not done.” It was like someone lit a fire under my chair.

I realized in that moment: these aren’t just words for young missionaries or ambitious entrepreneurs. They’re for anyone, at any stage, who still has breath in their lungs and purpose in their heart.

Lesson 1: Keep Your Engine Running—Even in Retirement

Here’s the truth: life doesn’t come with a “finish line” unless you decide to draw one. I’ve met people who treat retirement as the end of the road, a time to slowly fade out of relevance. Not me. If anything, I see this chapter as a wide-open runway for the dreams God planted in me decades ago.

It’s like Paul said in Philippians 3:14 (NLT):

“I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us.”

Press on—that’s active, not passive. It means your engine is still running, your purpose still alive, and your contribution still needed.

Lesson 2: “No Reserves” Means Giving All You’ve Got

William Borden wrote “No Reserves” in his Bible after deciding to give up his vast inheritance to serve as a missionary. He meant there would be no holding back, no keeping something “just in case.”

In business, in sailing, in raising a family—I’ve learned that when you show up halfway, you get halfway results. The seasons where I poured everything into my work and relationships were the seasons I saw the most growth, both in myself and in those around me.

That’s true in faith, too. Jesus didn’t say, “Love the Lord your God with some of your heart.” He said:

Matthew 22:37 (NLT):

“You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.”

“All” leaves no reserves.

Lesson 3: “No Retreat” Means Forward Is the Only Direction

Let’s be honest—there are times when the temptation to back up or play it safe feels overwhelming. I’ve had business deals fail, technology ideas flop, and personal projects fizzle out. In those moments, it’s easy to start telling yourself, “Maybe I’m done. Maybe it’s time to pull back.”

But here’s what I’ve found: retreat is the fastest way to lose momentum. You don’t need to have every answer before you take the next step—you just need to keep moving forward.

As Proverbs says:

Proverbs 4:25-27 (NLT):

“Look straight ahead, and fix your eyes on what lies before you. Mark out a straight path for your feet; stay on the safe path. Don’t get sidetracked; keep your feet from following evil.”

In other words: eyes forward, feet moving.

Lesson 4: “No Regrets” Comes from Living with Intention

“No regrets” doesn’t mean every choice turns out perfectly—it means you lived in alignment with your values, and you acted when the opportunity arose.

Some of my most cherished memories come from times when I took a risk: saying yes to a big client project that scared me, agreeing to teach a technology workshop when I felt unqualified, or setting sail in unpredictable weather (don’t tell my younger self’s sailing crew I admitted that).

Those choices taught me that regret rarely comes from failing—it comes from not trying.

Lesson 5: Gratitude is the Fuel for a No-Regret Life

Over the years, I’ve discovered that gratitude is what makes “no reserves, no retreat, no regrets” sustainable. Without it, the journey becomes a grind. With it, every day feels like a gift—because it is.

When I wake up, I don’t think, “What do I have to do today?” I think, “What do I get to do today?”

This attitude shift keeps the fire burning, and it turns ordinary moments into opportunities to impact others.

My Motto Today

Thanks to my friend’s reminder, these two combined mottos—“I’m not dead, I’m not done” and “No reserves, No Retreat, No Regrets”—are more than just inspiring words for me. They’re a personal mission statement, a reminder that whether I’m mentoring, writing, spending time with my grandkids, or learning the latest AI tools, I’m here to live fully, love deeply, and serve faithfully.

Life doesn’t slow down just because the calendar says you’re supposed to be “winding down.” If anything, this is the time to put the sails up and catch the wind God’s sending your way.

Summary

Success in life and career isn’t about perfect timing, endless resources, or flawless execution—it’s about showing up with your whole heart, refusing to turn back, and living so that when you look back, there’s nothing you wish you’d done differently.

Whether you’re starting a new career at 25 or starting fresh dreams at 80, the call is the same: live with no reserves, no retreat, no regrets—because you’re not dead, and you’re certainly not done.

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Quotes from famous Christian Leaders

• Billy Graham

  “The will of God will not take us where the grace of God cannot sustain us.”
  Isaiah 41:10 (NLT) — “Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand.”

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  Corrie ten Boom

  “Never be afraid to trust an unknown future to a known God.”
  Jeremiah 29:11 (NLT) — “For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.”

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  Charles Spurgeon

  “By perseverance, the snail reached the ark.”Scripture:
  Galatians 6:9 (NLT) — “So let’s not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up.”

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  Elisabeth Elliot

  “God will not protect you from anything that will make you more like Jesus.”
  Romans 8:28-29 (NLT) — “And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them… to become like his Son.”

  5. A.W. Tozer

  “The man who has God for his treasure has all things in One.”
  Psalm 16:5 (NLT) — “Lord, you alone are my inheritance, my cup of blessing. You guard all that is mine.”

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  John Wesley

  “Do all the good you can, by all the means you can, in all the ways you can… as long as ever you can.”
  Colossians 3:23 (NLT) — “Work willingly at whatever you do, as though you were working for the Lord rather than for people.”

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  D.L. Moody

  “Our greatest fear should not be of failure, but of succeeding at something that doesn’t matter.”
  Matthew 6:33 (NLT) — “Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.”

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  Oswald Chambers

  “We are not called to be successful in the world’s eyes, but to be faithful in God’s eyes.”
  1 Corinthians 4:2 (NLT) — “Now, a person who is put in charge as a manager must be faithful.”

  Amy Carmichael

  “You can give without loving, but you cannot love without giving.”Scripture:
  1 John 3:18 (NLT) — “Dear children, let’s not merely say that we love each other; let us show the truth by our actions.”

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  Hudson Taylor

  “God’s work done in God’s way will never lack God’s supply.”
  Philippians 4:19 (NLT) — “And this same God who takes care of me will supply all your needs from his glorious riches, which have been given to us in Christ Jesus.”